I have answered this question time and time again for people and the answer is always the same—nothing good would come of you representing yourself. While law school does not prepare us for everything the legal world has to throw our way, it definitely prepares us to analyze legal issues on your behalf. There are numerous examples out there in the appellate cases as to why you should never represent yourself. But, most people try to rationalize and say that it is not a big deal and that they will ultimately be okay. My thought process is if you can pay an attorney to even review the documents you are about to sign that is always better than just outright signing something. Reason being, when it turns out to be something that you did not ultimately want the likely result will be that you will just have to get over it.
The most recent example of why you should never go this alone is out of a bill of review from the 422nd Judicial District Court of Kaufman County. The case is entitled Laurie Faye Walker v. Brad Vincent Walker and in that case the wife filed a bill of review in the 422nd Judicial District Court, the same court that signed off on her decree, asking the Court to basically review and reconsider her divorce. The Court denied her bill of review and the wife subsequently filed an appeal. The Fifth District Court of Appeals upheld the 422nd Court’s denial of the bill of review for numerous reasons. A bill of review carries a high burden and you have to exhaust all other remedies before filing it. Thus, the bill of review has to be your last resort that you seek when you do not have any other remedy and the Court of Appeals found that the wife did have a remedy when she was mailed the decree within a week of it being filed. At that point, she could have filed an appeal but she did not. She waited four years later and filed a bill of review. Also, she stated that she signed the decree out of duress but the Court clearly found that she could not be believed when she was in a different state and her husband was not even around her when she signed. Finally, she claimed that she did not have notice of the final hearing but the Court found that she had signed off on all of the documents and she did have hearing that those documents were approved by the trial court within a week of being filed. Therefore, the Court held that this was sufficient notice and based on all of these reasons agreed with the trial court.
Do not let this happen to you—hire an attorney to assist you in your divorce. You always want to hire someone (no matter what stage you are at in your divorce) as opposed to not hiring and then facing the consequences of representing yourself.